Double Standards If people don’t have double standards, this world will be such a happier place to live in. Most of the misery and clashing between people is because of double standards. Why should there be one set of rules for a person or a set of people, and another set of rules for everyone […]
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Stick to your convictions
Stick to your convictions If you believe in something, stick to it. By all means, listen to others and see if there is any good in what they say. But be confident about yourself and make your own decision. For example, if you are a doctor, and you believe in a certain treatment, and someone praises […]
Do things because they make you happy
Do things because they make you happy We should do things for the right reasons. The best reason to do something is because it is useful and makes us happy and peaceful. If we do something just for praise and fame, there is a chance we may get disappointed. But if we do it because […]
I am always there
I am always there The popular saying is “I think, therefore I am!” But I don’t think in sleep. Does it mean that I don’t exist in sleep? The truth is I am there in sleep, dream and waking. I am always there, whether I think or not.
Let the world be proud of your children
Let the world be proud of your children Don’t bring up your children like brats. It is not good for them. If you do, you may think they are the best, but they will grow up to be a failure in the world. You can bring them up like they can behave any way they want; […]
Getting along is more important
Getting along is more important In a relationship or marriage, getting along is more important than proving a point, or always doing what you like. Proving your point may give your ego a boost, but not doing what pleases your companion may ruin the day, or perhaps the relationship. Be smart, and give in a […]
A little kindness goes a long way
A little kindness goes a long way A little kindness at the right time goes a long way. Be kind to people when they need it; not at your convenience. Kindness in deeds – caring for the sick, preparing food, cleaning, household chores etc. – is great. But kindness in words when someone is sad, […]
Take time to appreciate
Take time to appreciate Take the time to appreciate your beloved. Express your love in words and deeds. If you don’t, you may lose him or her, to someone else who shows appreciation and love. When you become complacent, and think that your companion is happy and will not want anyone else’s love and caring, […]
Don’t hold a grudge
Don’t hold a grudge When you bicker or quarrel with a loved one, or even a fond friend or relative, don’t hold a grudge for too long. It is simply not worth it. Not only do you lose your peace of mind and happiness, it is not good for your health either. Children remember events […]
Aspire but be prepared for any outcome
Aspire but be prepared for any outcome People tell you, “Aspire! Go for your dreams!”, because you like to hear it! But if they are truthful or wise, they will go on to tell you, “Aspire! But be prepared for any outcome. Certainly make the efforts, but be aware that the results are not in […]
Meditation is Life
Meditation is Life Meditation is your true nature now. You call it meditation, because there are other thoughts distracting you. When these thoughts are dispelled, you remain alone, i.e., in the state of meditation free from thoughts; and that is your real nature which you are now attempting to gain by keeping away other thoughts. […]
You are unique
You are unique You are unique. No one like you. Either you can use this amazing fact to make yourself and those around you happy, by seeing the positive things in yourself and your life, Or you can make yourself and those around you miserable, by seeing the negative things in yourself and your life.
Forgive in your heart
Forgive in your heart To err is human, To forgive divine. No one is perfect. Everybody makes mistakes. Anger will cause pain. Forgiveness will give peace.
Time Flies…Live today fully…
Time Flies…Live today fully… Time Flies. You may think you have a lot of time left in life. But life is unpredictable. So don’t waste your life on useless matters, people who make you restless and brooding over the past. Think Positive. Live today fully knowing that you will be taken care of.
Spend time with Nature
Spend time with Nature Spend time with Nature. The ocean, the beach, the park with green grass and graceful trees, the garden with elegant flowers, a brook, a lake, a river…they all are egoless and peaceful. When we are with them, their Peace attaches itself to us. And we become calm too.
Rejection is God’s protection
Rejection is God’s protection When someone breaks your heart, understand that it is God’s way of protecting you from a bigger tragedy in this relationship. Rejection is sometimes a blessing in disguise.
You have a purpose
You have a purpose There is a purpose for you in this world. That means you are as important as everyone else. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise or put you down in any way. Be yourself and help yourself for your purpose to be fulfilled.
Power is not knowledge
Power is not knowledge People typically think that when a person acts all important and haughty, that person is important and knows a lot. But when a person is nice, they think that she or he does not know much. These are erroneous notions. Knowledge may be power, but power does not mean knowledge.
Outlook is everything
Outlook is everything Thoughts occur in our minds like waves in the ocean. They are based on our mental outlook. When our outlook is wrong, we see everything wrong. When our outlook is right, we see everything in the right perspective. We can change our outlook from ignorance to wisdom by learning and pondering over […]
Let things happen
Let things happen Rushing and planning for everything makes us restless and agitated. What happens does not change because of our furious thinking. Instead, let things happen. Make the right effort with the right attitude, knowing that the results are beyond our control. You will be a lot happier.